Have you ever woken up tired, depleted and unable to function knowing that you once again have to suit up and show up for that dead-end job?
Wondering where your life is going, you cry, get angry, and head straight for the Ben and Jerryʻs. Been there, done that.
Sometimes, this is the day we realise something HAS to change. It’s the day we decide to reinvent ourselves. The problem is this – this thinking gets us no where and the cycle of unhappiness begins again.
In order to truly make a change we need to redirect ourself and understand that real and lasting change starts on the inside, with some deep soul-searching.
Here’s 3 steps to help you on your way to making some lasting changes and manifesting your dreams.
Look within to get clarity on what it is you really want. Prayer, meditation and journaling can help. If you are still not clear, make it up! Write your own dream life with the mindset that all things are possible!
There are so many ways to keep your desires at the forefront of your mind. You can create a vision board to hang over your desk, a Pinterest board to pin all the things you want on a special board, or a scrapbook with all your desires! Be creative and have fun with it.
Remind yourself daily of not only what you want your life to look like in the future but of the blessings you have now.
What’s stopping you?
This is the most important and hardest part, believe me. I never believed I was good enough and so I settled, settled and settled some more.
Take an honest look at what is blocking you from having all that you want and deserve. What you believe in your subconscious and conscious mind is going to manifest in your life experience whether you want it to or not. If you want a soul mate but you don’t believe you are lovable, your belief will stand in the way of your dream relationship. Instead what will manifest are experiences that prove to yourself that you are unloveable.
How can you really take the leap of faith into your purpose if you donʻt believe you can make it?
Get clear on what you believe about yourself and make a choice to heal, forgive and release that which does not serve you. It can be painful but you are worthy and worth it!
And if you are anything like me, by this point you will have nothing to lose. Once you clean up your internal landscape, you’ll most likely get even more clear on your vision.
You must be willing to take action.
Sometimes we get stuck in fear or lack of faith because we cannot see how walking through one door may open five more. Being afraid of the unknown, we feel like we need to have all the answers before we start and therefore disregard guidance that we don’t understand. We get caught up in trying to figure everything out instead of trusting our hearts, our intuition, our instincts or higher self for that matter, to lead the way. Make the commitment and take one step each day to move toward your vision. Write it down. Keep a log.
Watch the momentum build and a new path start to unfold with delight.
Today, self observation is an integrated part of my daily activity as I explore even more of who I am and take full ownership and accountability for my life.
As you go through this process remember to be patient with yourself. In a world of instant gratification, we tend to put the cart before the horse. But manifesting your dreams will take time. Be gentle and have faith that the universe is working behind the scenes. It is working in your favour – new opportunities WILL manifest effortlessly as a result of your inner work.
While you are waiting, love yourself like no other lover can. When the changes come, embrace them and know that you deserve every scrumptious bit. Then celebrate.
About Shannon Nicole
Shannon is a Visionary. She is also Healer and Published Author who is focused on contributing to the betterment of humanity and sustainability of the planet while living a life of passion and purpose. She nests on the island of Maui located among the Hawaiian archipelago in the Pacific. As an Author, her published works include her memoir Jaded Grace. More recently she’s joined Älska Publishing as a contributing author in bestseller Heart to Heart: The Path to Wellness. Follow Shannon on Facebook or checkout her website.